T I M E
... "Over these many years, my voice has softened, my heart has weakened, my body makes interesting new noises, my paced has slowed, my beliefs have strengthen, love has evolved, true friendships have faded, blood family is still distant, what is left of my hair has changed colors. i still look back with the weight of numerous regrets. i look forward with extreme caution. i live today, barely, with a passion and desire to share the beauty i find in life in an attempt to inspire others to celebrate life and to seize EVERY moment. Whether by my own attempts or the poor choices i have made in my life, i never believed i would reach 52 years upon this earth, recently my own doctors weren't very confident i would either. But i am here today, no guarantee's about tomorrow, but at this moment, i desire to live, share, celebrate, taste, feel, experience and be." ~~~ ric berrong, June 20, 2014
...The Beginning of the End
At one time i actually cared
Now i really don't
The life before me is coming to an end
As the life behind me never truly began
To die with regrets is all i am
For life was only lived within my dreams
Too afraid to be me
Too alone to be free
Now it is too late to start again
To even start something new
Now it is too late to live
Nothing left to do but begin to die
June 13,2014
June 13,2014
Finding Peace
"Too often life can be unfair and uncertain, the people in it cruel and disrespectful. To find my peace and honor my truths, i pick up my camera and get lost in the beauty that life has to share with each and every one of us. i may look at life differently than others, but the reality is we are all able to be witness to the glorious artwork of Mother Nature. Saturday was such a day for me. i was feeling alone and struggling because of my health. My pace slowed, my balance wobbly and my chest tight with lightening bolt feelings of intense pain, but i knew i had to experience these dwindling moments of life. Capturing the celebration of life in hopes of sharing and inspiring. How blessed and insufficient i felt surrounded by burst of colors, as if hand painted by an experienced artist, of flowers and plants. i was able to forget my own limits and focus on what truly mattered ... this fragile gift of life. When we allow ourselves to remember that life is truly a very special gift, and we cherish it with respect, what matters is that we live it, no matter what else is happening within or around us. i know that at any moment this gift will be taken from me, i can only hope as i enter a new journey, where i am reunited with my SADDI, that those left behind, who took for granted my brief moments in life will have second thoughts about their own words and actions, not hurting anyone else, even themselves, in my memory. And maybe they will look back at the photo's i have been able to share and appreciate life just a little bit more. Look at life just a little differently. And give praise where it is truly deserved." ~~~ ric berrong
inspired
Watching a 2013 interview by Oprah Winfrey with Maya Angelou ... i have chills. This brilliant woman spoke so simply, but those simple words were shared with such strength and truth. ... ... ... Within my own journey through this life i have had 3 role models who guide and inspire me. For being a better human i give complete credit to my precious SADDI. Within our 13.5 years together, i changed and continue to do so. i truly owe SADDI my life, so i must make it a meaningful life to honor her. ... ... ... With my photography, i am inspired by the works of Georgia O'Keefe and how, with her paintings, she showed us a flower completely different than we had ever viewed it before. Mother Nature has blessed us with such amazing detailed artwork that deserves to be truly and fully witnessed. ... ... ... With my words, it has always been Maya Angelou who taught me to write with complete honesty. Some may think i over share, but what i have learned through writing and life experiences, what i share may not touch you, but it may someone else. Someone who is feeling alone, lost, places i have been so many times myself. Places no one should ever be. (i am gathering past and current writings for my long overdue book --- Thoughts, Feelings and Pain). ... ... ... i am not on this earth for selfish reasons. i have no need or reason to post selfies everyday. To write about every ill, pain or fear. Or praising myself for my good deeds. i don't need, desire or deserve praising from others or rewards. My thanks comes from believing i have shared and my sharing encourages others to do so without a selfish thought or agenda in doing so. Simply, so easily, we can learn today is not about me or you ... it is about each and every one of us.
thinking
... i'm seated on the front porch, drinking my Tang while listening to the rain falling upon the leaves and plants that fill our front yard. We're very blessed to live in a fairly quiet neighborhood, the only other sounds to be heard areof a passing car and in the far distance a soccer game at the high school. There is a slight chill, but it can be ignored by the fresh scent of the rain and the abundance of wild plants within our yard. The birds are helping themselves to the feast i have left out for them, the hummingbirds enjoying the sweet water while the squirrels hop along the damp grass in search of their own goodies. As usual, i am feeling very reflective, daydreaming of how i wish life could be instead of its reality. i pause to enjoy the diversity of colors within our yard, always impressed by the incredible artwork of Mother Nature. This is a moment, a memory, i will take with me and share with SADDI when i see her again. My mind foolishly and painfully allows me to visualize seeing SADDI sitting on the porch with me now. Knowing she would be happy and comfortable laying on a blanket near me, no where near the raindrops, with her attention focused on seeing the friendly squirrel who always climbs up the steps when i come out each morning with my first cup of hot coffee to fill my lungs with life. SADDI would like it here. But i return to my reality, knowing how life has given me yet another obstacle, though this one not to be won. All i can do now is cherish these precious quiet moments where there is no pressure placed on the struggles of my beating heart. Quietly plotting how i can leave a positive mark upon this world through my errors and journey. Today, i question if my sharing has any impact at all, upon anyone. But i cannot allow those thoughts to halt me from inspiring others in the tomorrow's i will be unable to see. Only now is all i have and with that i must, with any ounce of energy left within me, ensure that i am doing as i encourage others to do ... seize EVERY moment.
Appreciate Life
It has nothing to do with my failing health, i can't remember when i didn't have a great appreciation for the life around me. i do recall a time when i began rushing through life and not noticing what i should, but SADDI slowed me down and taught me to appreciate the simple things in life. SADDI always found great joy from a silly stick we'd find in our walks. Today, i am content to sit and watch the squirrels in our backyard enjoying treats i have shared with them. Or seated on the front porch with my eyes closed listening to the sound of the hummingbird wings as they sip some sugar water. Some may believe, with my limited time on this earth, that i should have a stronger purpose or give more, but unlike so many, i am doing and giving, i just don't announce my efforts. i will leave this earth with my many regrets and my peace for celebrating the beauty of life.
... "During the course of time and this time that we are living now, we are nothing more than a grain of sand laying on the beach with others just like us. But sometimes, as you walk across the sands, every now and then, a simple grain of sand will capture the light in a certain way to shine and sparkle. This is how we should all live our lives, to stand out, to shine, to sparkle. What a glorious beach it would then be." ~~~ ric berrong
There is a place, not on this soil, called the Rainbow bridge. It is just a belief, but one that i hold closely within my heart and dreams.
The Rainbow bridge is a place where our beloved animal family members go when they are taken from us. Taken far too soon. It is believed this is where they wait for us until we finally depart our bodies on this earth.
The Rainbow bridge crosses over to a place where there is freedom from pain and age, and our animal family members are returned to their prime, healthy and happy. They make new friends and share stories about the love they received from the humans in their earthly life. Some are comforted by their new friends because their earthly life was cruel, sometimes never knowing the love others had received.
Today, i dream about crossing the Rainbow bridge, leaving behind this lonely earth and being greeted by the beautiful smile on my precious SADDI's face. Feeling her pressing against my legs as she barks her welcoming to me. If there is such a thing as forever, i will be holding SADDI that long.
30 years ago
... Impossible to believe, but 30 years ago today my precious Scruffy was taken from me. Scruffy, my very best friend during my school years, was so devoted to me and always knew how to make me smile ... which was often. When we moved into my Grandmothers house, our new neighbors, old friends, had found Scruffy but were about to take her to the pound. i begged my mom to let me have her and so began our friendship. About a year later, my mothers third husband was leaving us and loading everything he could into his truck. i took Scruffy next door and begged Arlene to watch over Scruffy and not allow my so-called step father to take her, as he had threatened. It was the longest day of my life worrying about Scruffy. As soon as i got home i was over joyed to find Scruffy waiting for me and we returned to our now empty house. The next few years were quite a struggle, i could not have survived without Scruffy. Scruffy always seemed to know when i was coming back from school and would stand on the screen door waiting for me. She could hear a block or so away and began her yelping cry. As soon as i walked into the house she would roll onto her back waiting for me to rub her belly, but she was so excited she would always pee a little. i often thought that Scruffy returned to me in the form of SADDI, they are so much alike. So loving. So loyal. So protective of me. So very much missed.
4 Years
Four years ago today, August 9, 2009, i kissed my beautiful little girl on the ear, whispered how much i love and need her, she raised her paw and placed it on my hand and then she was gone. SADDI is my best friend. SADDI is my soulmate. SADDI, as well as Devon, is the love of my life. SADDI picked me on May 10, 1006 and we shared 13.5 years together. SADDI was with me during the biggest move in my life. Protected me when i was abused and used. Cared for me when i was sick. Celebrated with me when Devon joined our family. A day never passes that i am not overwhelmed with tears in missing SADDI. An hour doesn't go by without a smile from thinking about her. i am forever, deservingly so, carrying the guilt that i could not save her from the evils of cancer, she certainly did not deserve to suffer. But SADDI was brave, confident and ensured that Devon and i were loved, as she also ensured that we continued to spoil her (we didn't need the reminder actually, but it was fun teasing her). SADDI never complained, even on that last day as i laid with her waiting for Devon to return home. We laid there for a couple of hours, where i just told her how much better my life was with her and thanking her for making me a better human. SADDI kept her paw on my hand as she struggled to breathe. She was so weak, but when Devon came through the door she wanted to get up to greet him, but i wouldn't let her and just had Devon hurry to us. SADDI was more human than any human i have ever known. i wish more people knew her and witnessed our beautiful love story. Until the day i am reunited with SADDI at the Rainbow bridge, i will share our story and hopefully inspire more people to be like this amazing doggie. i love you so very much SADDI. i need us and i know, in your own way, you are still with me. i feel you. i feel your energy. And often i even feel you laying against me. Thank you SADDI for loving me when i couldn't even find reasons to love myself.
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